Being introvert…!!!

Often people misunderstand the introvert people. Many call introvert people antisocial animal. Introvert aren’t anti social. They are people who hangout with known one easily but when it comes to mingle with new people they find it difficult . Introvert are often very possessive over the people they hangout with. They are very specific about whom to talk, when to talk and what to talk. Often introverts are afraid to share their stories or talk to new people not because they are anti social but because they are afraid, they don’t want to share their views, emotions or stories. May be they don’t want to showcase it, or they fear that someone can make fun of their emotions. Such introverts aren’t anti social they just fear to expose their inner soul.

Whatever they feel they keep it to them. Being human, it can’t be kept for long within and so their feeling, emotions comes out in the form of art. It comes out in the form of poems, stories, music or drawing. Most of the time you find that great writers are introverts. Many successful people you find are introvert. And so the society need to understand the difference between introverts and anti social. just because you don’t like to hangout with people doesn’t mean you are anti social. 

People don’t become introvert by choice they become one due the circumstances they grew up in. As it is rightly said, ” one cannot understand the others pains, unless and until one steps into his/her shoe” same goes with extrovert and introvert. If it is important for society to understand the difference between anti social and introverts then it is equally important for introverts people to come out occasionally and push themselves to talk with new people, to start conversation with new people. For introverts who can help them, is they themselves. 

So, just a small request at the end. If you see any introvert person around you trying hard to come up of his situation respect him or her and help them to tackle their problem.